@BobWilliams I am glad you wrote about this because I feel similarly. I think for me, I've overextended myself and now I cannot keep up. There are too many people that I want to read and I haven't got enough time to do that.
I try to catch up later, but I can't see everything. I don't know if it's the server I'm on, or the settings I've chosen, or if this is just how Mastodon is, but I get far enough behind that I scroll down as far as I can and no more posts will load even though I'm not caught up in my reading.
Lists seem to scroll farther for me than the Home timeline, so I'm making an effort to add folks to lists. That way I can go back and see what I've missed.
Also, I have lately been using my lunch break to connect in person with folks I haven't spent a lot of time with lately, which means I'm not using that time as much for Mastodon (which is different than what I used to do, which was spend most of lunch catching up on Mastodon).
So I'm on here a little less just due to real-life stuff. I don't know if there is some kind of overall wave you could graph where a significant portion of Mastodon folks are going through something similar.
Also, I saw something recently that the graph that tracks new users and hourly posts dropped off significantly - I don't know if that means an instance went dark for a length of time or what happened, but it might have impacted folks you talk to here.
@BobWilliams i keep mini lists of groups that i check in with to hopefully make sure i don't lose track.
@BobWilliams for eom the bird place I found a sweet spot around 500. I *think* the sweet spot might be lower here given the overall engagement is more genuine.
@BobWilliams I've begun to encounter the same. I think everyone has me on mute lol
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My timeline is flowing pretty fast, making it difficult to keep up. I have a lot of active people.
@BobWilliams it's the trade off for not being on the birdsite.
The more people I follow, more posts get skipped when I have to by-pass the 200 posts that arrived while I was having lunch.
That's something I've noticed but haven't felt the urge to cull the lists back down since the serendipity factor matters a lot to me.
I *do* follow a lot of hashtags, too, so I'm always finding more new people to follow.
@BobWilliams not really noticed that hash tags make a huge difference
@BobWilliams Hopefully, the people who interact with you on a regular basis are the understanding type, if you miss something. 🙂 Either way, the masto interaction is way better than I had on the bad bird site.
@BobWilliams Perhaps.. but I think I've got you beat hands-down on quantity. I was flat-out blocked by someone today because I boosted too many times and am just "looking for followers". 🤷
@BobWilliams I've been waiting a long time for a hit on Mastodon!
@nlowell @BobWilliams think it’s the law of diminishing returns
@BobWilliams realizing I just mixed up corncob tv and the hot dog vacuum skits.
@BobWilliams On the other hand, when I posted about the incident I received a surprising amount of support so maybe we're not on mute, maybe people are just busy 😜
@nlowell @BobWilliams maybe we’re beyond the first date & thinking of going steady